Magic Is in the Hot Mess
Christmas lights. Oh, the hassle of it all. Storing the bins of decorations, untangling miles of twinkling chaos, climbing ladders, cursing at those damn strands that refuse to light up. It’s a universal pain in the ass. We’ve all been Clark Griswold, pouring our hearts into creating a masterpiece only to have it go dark.And
Why Do I Avoid Myself?
I woke up this morning feeling amazing. It’s 4:40 a.m., and the house is blissfully quiet. The dogs didn’t wake me at 3 a.m. with their insatiable demands for food, so this Friday already feels like a win. It’s PJ day at school, which means Leo will be in a great mood, and for once,
What We Learn When We See Ourselves Clearly
Spoiler alert: This contains key moments from the movie It Ends With Us.There’s a moment early in the movie that hit me hard. Lily Bloom is clear about her boundaries: “I don’t do casual.” It’s such a simple yet powerful statement. She knows what she wants, and she isn’t afraid to stand up for it.And
Finding Joy Where You Are
In my twenties I found myself lost in Rocky Mountain National Park, wandering the wrong trail and growing more frustrated with every step. I kept thinking, Just get closer to the cabin. Close the gap between where you are and where you should be. The thought played on repeat: You’re not where you should be.
Hanging in the Dark with Stephen King
"And, as always, thank you for coming to another dark place with me."Absolutely, Stephen King! Wow—what have I been missing out on? This was my first Stephen King novel, and I loved it. Yes, I’m one of those people who loves hanging out in the dark places. Why? Because I’m endlessly curious about why we
Reframing Technology, Connection, and What Truly Matters
Lately, I’ve been reading The Coddling of the American Mind and The Anxious Generation, books that warn against screen time, especially for kids. I jumped wholeheartedly onto the “screen-time limits” bandwagon, cutting off YouTube, social media, and gaming, believing it was the best way to protect our family. But then, I watched The Remarkable Life
Mike Tyson vs. Jake Paul—Why Couldn’t We Look Away?
I don’t like boxing. I’m not a fan of fighting. I don’t care much for Mike Tyson, and the Paul brothers… let’s just say, “a lot.” So why was I counting down the days to the Mike Tyson vs. Jake Paul fight? Why did I find myself glued to every update on something I swore
Why We Avoid Ourselves and Our Creativity
It started with the towel on the floor.My 10-year-old was rude, talking back, and leaving chores undone. My wife was overscheduled and unavailable. And I was losing it.“It’s them,” I thought. “They’re the problem.”But 49 minutes into a 50-minute therapy session, it hit me: It’s not them. It’s me.Why wasn’t I taking myself for a
Here—Tom Hanks’ Ode to a Life Well-Lived, and the Case for Staying Foolish
Richard Young (Tom Hanks) and his wife, Kate, played brilliantly by Robin Wright, find themselves, as many of us do, reflecting on the past, examining choices, and questioning what it means to have truly lived. Directed by Robert Zemeckis and joined by the Forrest Gump crew, Here isn’t a typical nostalgia-driven drama or a tale
Coming Back to What Matters
Yesterday was one of those days where nothing feels right, where every word cuts and every look hurts. It started with our kid refusing to touch the fruit I put on their plate. “Come on, just one piece,” I said for what felt like the thousandth time. I got a glare that could slice through
